What do you most enjoy about being a Butterfly Volunteer?
To be with patients at the end of their life whether they are responsive or not, to be able to keep them company, hold their hand, talk, read or be quiet with them. With so many families spread around the world it is a relief and comfort for them to know that their dear ones are not alone. Visitors may want to talk, they don’t always, about their loved one, family life or other issues. It is a privilege to be allowed to be involved and if necessary signpost to other help if appropriate.

What do you do after a call/ shift to unwind?
Listen to Meat Loaf, Simply Red or Coldplay. Participate in some form of sport – badminton, hockey, netball. Doing craft or just reading a book.

What’s your go to hot drink?
Strong black coffee

What’s your favourite book or film
Book – White Swans by Jung Chang or The Book Thief by Markus Zusak.
Film – Schindler’s List.

Do you have any advice to new volunteers?
It is an honour to sit with these patients and families and to be allowed into their lives. If you are with a patient and you don’t what to say, I recommend carrying a story book or book of poems with you to read to the patient. Your voice and presence are a comfort.